Comments on: Men Loving Other Men

By: julie

julie — Mon, 10 Dec 2007 04:54:40 +0000

dear annalyn,

im a student seeking for help…
this blog interest me because i plan to discuss on my final report about marriages were the husbands are gays(open to the family)..i was hoping u can send me related literature/articles, journals that discusses married gay fathers..this is a study for parenting and their child’s development.

P.S if you know of couples who are willing to be interviewed about their parenting styles and situations with their children involved, that would be very helpful..

i know this is too much to ask..im just trying my luck =)

By: manjeet dhiman

manjeet dhiman — Wed, 04 Oct 2006 13:15:49 +0000

fucking a boy by aboy is tremendous experience.it is easy to fuck but very tough to get rid of this disease.

By: thess

thess — Mon, 27 Mar 2006 11:54:54 +0000

agree ako sa sinabi mo na: ‘iba rin kasi pag nandun ka na sa situation na meron na kayong engrandeng kasalan, mga anak, more or less settled na kayo sa buhay at meron na ring conjugal na ari-arian’
hindi lang sa mga homosexuals nangyayari ang ganyan, madami na ding cases ng married transexuals (male to female) kung saan mga babae ay patuloy nakikisama sa mga ito sa iisang bubong.
ah, mahirap magsalita ng tapos.

By: ajay

ajay — Mon, 27 Mar 2006 00:26:16 +0000

Yes Noemi, I think that when you’re a hetero, choosing to stick it out with a gay partner is a choice, albeit a difficult one:!:

I agree Toe, they’re a most talented bunch, fun to be with and sometimes unforgivably sleazy but still very much human.

By: Toe

Toe — Sun, 26 Mar 2006 11:24:47 +0000

Some of my best friends from the Conservatory of Music were gay and they were the most intelligent and talented people I know. They’re not screaming faggots (though they could be verrrrry funny) but neither are they closet queens. I think they call themselves simple gays… they act and dress like men. And they act even more like gentlemen than real men. But their sexual preference would also be men. I like them a lot but I can’t imagine falling in love with anyone who has the same crushes as I do.

By: noemi

noemi — Thu, 23 Mar 2006 23:48:06 +0000

I know of a gay still married and living with his wife. I am not privy to their arrangement but that’s their choice. From the outside, they look like great friends. So to each their own on how they manage their homosexuality.

By: ajay

ajay — Thu, 23 Mar 2006 14:51:46 +0000

Jher and Toni, yes..people who confront their gayness should be admired. There’s really no use dragging other people (innocent females) into the picture because then, you compromise their capacity to be truly happy

Hi Amando..hopefully your brother will come out of it soon because I heard Latinas can really be mean when they’re angry:grin: unless of course it’s okay with her..

I’ve had a boyfriend who I thought was gay because he resists any intimacy with me despite the fact that am 101% sure there’s nothing wrong with me. He was one of the warmest, most sensitive men I’ve known though and until now, we’re the best of friends. Life is indeed strange.

By: toni

toni — Thu, 23 Mar 2006 08:32:43 +0000

I highly respect those who have come out of the closet and stayed true to themselves. Mabuhay sila!

By: amando

amando — Wed, 22 Mar 2006 23:58:46 +0000

Ajay, I have a younger brother who is gay. I accepted him for what he is and the lifestyle he lives in. Funny thing about my brother is that he is still hiding in the closet. He won’t come out the closet and accept that he is gay. He shruggs it off and acts like a macho. And to add to this he has a latina girlfriend . What a funny world we live in .

By: jher

jher — Wed, 22 Mar 2006 09:03:01 +0000

ajay – i agree with you. it’s very easy to say that it’s not acceptable but it’s a completely different ballgame when you are the one who’s actually involved in the situation. very difficult decision indeed.

as for a gay man like myself, luckily a woman will not have a problem with me coz i do not intend to marry anyway. LOL. but i see this as simply as a man who cheats to his wife, he just happens to cheat with a man. and cheating is cheating. no explanations or justifications needed.