About

Ajay is a thirty-something mom to a perky son and a pair of lovable twins. She thinks they are the most beautiful, huggable persons on this planet.

Ajay is more popularly known as the columnist behind Blog-O-Rama which is featured in Manila Bulletin’s Technews once a week.

This is Ajay’s personal weblog (stress on personal) and the views expressed here do not reflect the views of her company or the publication(s) she writes for.

While Ajay tries to be as honest as possible, it will be stupid for anyone to take everything she writes hook line & sinker. Sometimes Ajay is just having fun. Most of the time she writes when the mood suits her.

Ajay is an unabashed liberal . Indecent proposals and obscene comments not welcome.

Overall, this blog is wholesome as well as her life. Ajay has been travelling a lot lately that she hasn’t had time to use her vibrator and breathe.

Ajay is a non-smoker and prefers to kiss/be around people who do the same.

Ajay lives in an old 1950s apartment building in Malate and got it because of the sense of antiquity and character it emanates. She’s not sure about it now though as she now has to contend with rats, and ghosts!! Neighbors have often been knocking on her door lately to complain about the excessive noise of her kiddies during playtime. My. Oh. My.

Ajay is a fan of the following: clothes, massages, shoes on sale, bags (to a lesser degree), make-up, net surfing, hot brewed coffee, buffet breakfasts, trying out different restos, extraordinary hotels, gadgets, the dearly-departed Sex & The City, sex (simply), Friends, My Boyfriend Is A Twat, blogging with a passion, Asia & its diversity as well as a hundred other things she’s forgetting right now.

Ajay’s an accidental tourist and depends on the kindness and generosity of her editors for those media junkets and trips. Contrary to common perception, it’s not “free” considering that she has to write about the whole thing afterwards.

Ajay has been to the following countries: the US, Belgium, Holland, England, Germany, France, Spain, Japan, Hong Kong, Malaysia, Singapore, Macau, China & Thailand. She plans to travel throughout Asia, when her schedule permits.

It was only recently that Ajay got over her fear of flying. Her other phobias include earthquakes, heights and snakes.

Ajay labels herself now as riproaringly single even though her last boyfriend thinks she is still his girlfriend and calls her everyday.

She is presently looking for someone to share great vacations with.

Ajay is happily attached to Mr. Z, whom she met in not-so-ordinary circumstances. Perhaps, the old adage is true: love indeed comes from the most unexpected places.

Ajay’s three secret wishes which will probably be unfulfilled during her lifetime: being a vegetarian, being a lesbian and doing a threesome.

Ajay is no longer the jealous type. She thinks jealous women are so….uncool!!

Ajay grew up with her grandparents in an ample house by the beach. She was valedictorian of her elementary class. Afterwards it was off to Manila to immerse herself in a Catholic education which bored her completely. She now thinks that her Catholic schooling is the reason why she is not religious and will try hard not to impose the same on her children.

Ajay is the youngest of five children and has a younger half-sister she met only recently. She thinks she got her independent streak from her mother who has an PhD degree and raised her five kids alone.

Tomorrow is always a better day.

(to be continued)